Question by Flightless Bird: My boyfriend has a small penis, is this why I can’t orgasm during sex? Should I tell him?
So my boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 3 months now and I’ve had to fake an orgasm every time! He has a small penis so is this the reason why I can’t orgasm? He is perfect in every way and we definitely have a physical and emotional connection, but in order to to make him happy, I have to “fake it…” What’s improper? Is it me? Or him? Should I advert something to him? Maybe urge seeking “enhancement pills…” HELP!
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Answer by Jennifer
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How old are you, that would help in answering.
Why does girls have a need to ‘fake’ it? Who in the heck cares if girls fake it or not? It seems like your bf just don’t know how to ‘DO IT’, that’s all.
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you ever thing he might nt be small . you just may be big? hmmmm some how i can’t shake the feeling were talking about two 14 year olds here . In that case maybe your should not being having sex anyway ..it will only lead to trouble.
How big is it?
hmmm thats a prob there..
Get him some Extenze. Then tell him he has a small tool and film his reaction, put it on youtube so the world may enjoy.
No that isn’t why you don’t orgasm, only 40% of women orgasm during intercourse, 60% orgasm because their cli* is being rubbed the right way or from oral.
Don’t tell him anything about him, guide him to help you in other ways than intercourse
If you were that emotionally connect, why can’t you tell him? Maybe he could help with his hand or go down on you.
Plus waiting for sex til marriage is THE REAL DEAL
but I do understand you wanting to make him feel good and happy
but don’t lie, don’t fake, to make a real relationship work requires honesty
i think you should tell him. the more you fake it the more your going to unlike the intimacy aspect of the relationship. hes going to be hurt at first but give him some time and im sure you guys will be fine and have a open sexual relationship in the long run
First things first: never fake. It’s pointless: you give him the false idea he’s doing it right, and you don’t gain anything.
Instead, focus on what you do like.
You could try different positions (a lot of women can’t come with fucking alone, no matter what size the penis), or maybe you guys could have more foreplay so you get more exited.
He/you could also try to stimulate your clitoris during sex. Let him know what you do and don’t like, that’s only fair.
You’re definitely not alone. A large portion of women can’t orgasm from intercourse, myself included haha. I’d recommend trying different things, different positions, different scenarios, different roles. You may introduce him (and yourself) to using toys as a helper as well, not using the reason that he is lacking or anything, but that you are trying something new together. Also, since a big part of it is mental for us, if you try something new, or a different scenario, it may take your mind of thinking of his size, or whether something is wrong, etc and just get into the moment and let go.
Good luck.
you are responsible for your orgasms, NOT your boyfriend! i mean, dont you orgasm when you masturbate?
try having longer foreplay, stimulate your clitoris, use different things/positions/toys. there is no reason to “fake it” bcus ur just lying to yourself and to him. how are you supposed to gain anything from that? if you have been intimate for 3 months im sure you should be comfortable enough to communicate openly with him & let him know what would make you feel better during sex.
if you cant do that, then whatever happens is only your fault because he’s obviously not aware that you’re not having orgasms, how is he supposed to know?
by the way, size doesnt matter, its all about the technique and clit stimulation!
I’m sure your boyfriend is just fine – only 25% of woman will orgasm during intercourse and the other 75% will need some type of stimulation such as a hand, a toy or tongue to get them to reach climax.
Experiment with him in looking for different ways to get you over the top, it will be fun for him and you’ll get what you want in the end.
No, most of the nerve endings in a vagina are in the first inch. Have him rotate his hip more and try to hit different angles until he find some hot spots. He/you could try stimulating your clitoris while you are getting penetrated. Prop your butt up on a big pillow and have him aim for you gspot. Keep your knees together to make his penis feel larger. There are many tricks a guy and girl can do together to make sex enjoyable for both partners. You really need to communicate with each other and take it slow.
Best to experiment with different positions until you get that magic feeling. A finger length penis should be able to stimulate your G-spot so if he is not in the right position or angle you will get no pleasure anyway.
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His penis size has nothing to do with your lack of orgasm. Most women can’t orgasm through intercourse alone (manual and oral stimulation are usually needed). You have to find out for yourself what makes you orgasm and then teach him. Telling him he has a small penis is just going to make the situation worse. He already knows he has a small penis and those enhancement pills don’t work (i’ve tried them and they didn’t work for me). Try doggie style the next time you have sex (this is my gf and my favorite position). The great thing about this position is he (or you) can reach around and manually stimulate your clitoris. My gf orgasms almost every time with this position and i probably have a smaller penis then your bf (mine is only 4 inches erect). Hope this helps.